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Father’s Day Reflections on Love, Estrangement, and the Quiet Practice of Letting Go
Preface This personal reflection is shared by Dr. Ivan Zy Lim, founder of the PATH Framework, as a meditation on the intersection of...
Ivan Lim
Jun 194 min read


“If You Met My Father in Heaven”
Title: “If You Met My Father in Heaven” By Dr. Ivan Zy Lim A few nights ago, my wife said something that stopped me cold. We were talking...
Ivan Lim
Jun 153 min read


Ten More Years: A Brother’s Reflection on the Woman Who Raised Me
“Ten More Years: A Brother’s Reflection on the Woman Who Raised Me” By a Clinical Psychologist Who Was First a Little Brother We were...
Ivan Lim
Jun 74 min read


What My Father’s Absence Taught Me
Twenty-three years ago today, my father was called home. He left quietly. No long goodbye. No last life lesson wrapped in perfect timing....
Ivan Lim
May 313 min read


The Forgotten Ones at the Edge of the City: How PATH Helps Us Listen to the Lonely
I once sat across from an 82-year-old man who told me, without bitterness, that he hadn’t had a real conversation in weeks. His...
Ivan Lim
May 264 min read


Forgiveness Without Forcing It: What Asian Philosophy Can Teach Us About Letting Go
When someone hurts you deeply, unfairly, perhaps even intentionally, the modern instinct is to ask: “Should I forgive them?” We wrestle...
Ivan Lim
May 182 min read


Don’t Just Appreciate. Say Something!
Appreciating your partner will add to your own sense of fulfilment and satisfaction, How will your partner know you appreciate her? Yes,...
Ivan Lim
Nov 20, 20201 min read


Appreciating Your Partner - The Art of Appreciation
At times appreciation comes naturally. When you are hungry and someone feeds you, when someone does you a favour, in these moments,...
Ivan Lim
Nov 20, 20202 min read


Take a walk – A great help to many depressed people.
Walking provides for observing the world. The faster we walk the less we see. Walking keep me interested without flooding my senses with...
Ivan Lim
Nov 20, 20202 min read
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